Is this Taurus interested in me (Capricorn)?
So I’m going to meet this guy for the very first time to “hang out at his place”. I kind of sort of like him, but I’m rather not sure about him. I find that he likes to tease and provoke me for no reason (his favorite phrase is ‘make me’ amongst other things–i’m also younger than him by 3 years). We’ve mostly just communicated through some form of IM (text, facebook), and I initially didn’t think much of him until our first (and so far only) phone conversation which I initiated at his request. We got along wonderfully through that one conversation, and ended up losing track of time. But since both of us are incredibly busy, we haven’t had another phone conversation yet. Our text conversions differ completely from our phone convo and are terribly random, and he initiates them 90% of the time. I wouldn’t say our conversations are overtly flirtatious (if at all). Except sometimes I’m not too sure? Like here (he might sound REALLY wacko, but he’s not. just part of our randomness)
What’s your take on it? Is he flirting? Is he interested in friendship? or something more? And do guys often ask a guy to come over to ‘hangout’ at his place to watch movies just out of the blue like that?
Also I get that this dialogue will make him sound really aggressive, controlling, and perhaps a tad bit creepy, normally our conversations are rather innocent and foolish. This was the anomaly conversed at 2am in the morning.
Me: …Best adapt to stay ahead of the game.
Him: No excuses!
Me: Says Who? I don’t listen to you!
Him: Yeah you do, massage my back! (he asks me this a lot)
Me: In your own words “make me!”
Him: Bite Me!
Me: *middle finger* (yeeeah, we can get a bit terrible sometimes)
Him: Imma bite you and your finger (…..what did he just write?)
Me: Sadist. Cannibal! And now I’m missing a finger. Thanks. My career is ruined.
Him: I wouldn’t eat all of it, just chew it a little (wtf?)
—(then we talk a bit about normal stuff like school and work)
Him: Literature? Don’t say such evils!!!
Me: *gasp you wound me sir! (I love lit)
Him: Moo (yep, he’s random)
M: I wonder if you sound as pathetic in real life, mooing as often as you do.
Him: I’m effin awesome you jerk! Also, I ordered heaps of ____ food sucker!
Me: No!!! I was craving that so badly today (no lie, I was).
Me: Won’t lie. Completely envious.
Him: Drive on over (what? is he serious?)
Me: …I have class tomorrow morning.
Him: Hmm, come on over. (where is this going?)
Me: Can’t. Mail me some food! Cheaper than me driving over there (we live a bit apart).
Him: Tell me what to do, boss me around, grab a whip (*cough wtf is he saying?!)
Me: Ok, now you’re into bdsm and a masochist (he’s not really, we just like provoking each other like this).
Him: Cheers for the analysis. Drive over. (um, what?)
Me: (and this is me being completely blunt) Not exactly sure how I’m supposed to respond…
Him: (and this is him being blunt) Drive to (city he lives in) to hang out with a guy you met on the net. You don’t need to sugar coat it.
——-we commence making plans and behave as normal people do. i’m in his town on a certain day for a concert (with other friends in case he flakes or something) so we arrange to meet on that day. we end our conversation late at night.
Yeah. Help me! I’m so emotionally confused. Reasons why I don’t think he’s interested in me is because he calls me kiddo sometimes, and has not complimented me once on looks (which can be a good or bad thing). But I love that he’s incredibly supportive of my goals. we’ve both come to respect each other due to shared values and such, despite our silly conversations.
Also I’m sure he doesn’t want to “get into my pants”. Because I think we’re actually going out (we’re just meeting at his place). And I’m only going to be with him during the day. Unless things go well, then I’ll drag him to the concert with me.
Answer by All My Intensity
omggg, you sound like a cappie i used to know!!!!!!!!!! we had random conversations like that xD(your thought process is similar like hers too!)honestly, i think both of you guys are being indirect, I catch him saying playful stuff, like he’s kidding, but if you’re serious, it’s a likely outcome, like that coming over tonight. llooool it makes me think both of you are seeing what interests you guys have. funny. he’s into you,don’t beat yourself up 🙂 it’s just someone has to make a move…and i think both of you are shy
Answer by truebeholder
I would say he likes you as a fun friend. We Taurus have a playful side.
If he really liked you he would be more serious, maybe shy.
Taurus’ are really into looks. My cousin is a Taurus and his wife is one of the most beautiful women I have ever seen. Most guys would be intimidated by her, but not him.
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Can someone PLEASE tell me whats going on with this Capricorn?
We’ve been dating for almost 8 months (im virgo female)
Lately he has been distancing himself from me
When we’re together everythings great and he acts perfectly normal
Even when we’re not together we still keep in touch
The problem is…
He tries to avoid seeing me when we’re apart now, and does anything he can to not see me
He’ll blow me off or make other excuses not to see me (last week he said he was going to his moms bday party so i couldnt come over- i found out that the party wasnt until night so i could have come over, he just didnt want me to)
He’ll say things like “oh i just got the new video game i want you to play with me” or “i got our favorite show on dvd that i was going to give you” or “i got the money i owe you, ill give it to you when you come over” but then hes very reluctant to let me see him
Ive been begging him all week to spend time with me saturday (tomorrow) (i havent seen him in 2 weeks) and now today he said he’ll “try” to let me see him tomorrow
I replied, there is no trying, if you want me to be there then ill be there
He said, “”i guess you wont be here then” (he keeps talking like he doesnt want me around him but other than that he’ll talk about anything else normal)
What do you think he is doing??? Whenever i ask him whats going on he brushes it off and wont tell me…
Answer by Nicole
They’re weird it’s hilarious almost every woman who come to this section has a problem with Capricorn men.
They are distant
Cold, closed off and reserved. Idk what’s wrong with them. I talk to two of them and one acted like he had PMS. I’m a Gemini and I don’t have patience for ppl like that. So I cut him off the best thing I ever done.
I won’t ever talk to another cap man sorry.
I’d rather date a Leo or Sagittarius
Answer by Elle
I think the way he has been acting could be his way of showing you he wants to end this relationship. Try not to contact him for a bit if you don’t hear from him there’s your answer.
Answer by Victorious
Hey gurl 🙂
1. you should check his moon sign to know how he feel abt things (maybe youll figure out why Lately he has been distancing himself)
2. Also get to know his venus sign (since it might tell you what you did wrong that make him distance from you as venus tell his preference in a girl – maybe you did something that he doest like or he see you as not his right girl)
3. The way his treating you is rude, I suggest when you have alone time together tell him “You been avoiding me, & I feel insecure b’cus i love you, so can you share with me what wrong?” 🙂 maybe he will finally open up and tell you.
All the best girl! 🙂
P.S. if he still keeping on like this for the nxt 2mths dump him, his not worth ur loyalty.
& could you check out my recent qtn ^^ thks
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